You don’t need a perfect plan. You need to pay attention to what already moves you.
That moment when someone asks “What do you want to do with your life?” and you freeze up completely? I get it. The question feels massive, like you’re supposed to have some grand blueprint mapped out when honestly, most days you’re just trying to figure out what to have for lunch.
But what if I told you the answer isn’t hiding in some career aptitude test or five-year plan? What if it’s already there, quietly showing itself in the things you can’t stop thinking about?
Your Point of View is Your Compass
Every day, you wake up and look at the world through your unique lens. You notice things that irritate you. You get excited about stuff that makes other people yawn. You read certain books, watch specific shows, and find yourself drawn to particular problems or ideas.
This isn’t random. This is data.
Your point of view doesn’t feel like something you chose. It feels like something that emerges from you and tells you what it is. Like when George Harrison said about making a Beatles album: “We don’t know what the album is going to be yet because it hasn’t told us.”
Pay attention to what captures your attention. What makes you scroll slower? What problems make you think “Someone should really fix this”? What kind of conversations do you never get tired of having?
You Don’t Have to Monetize Everything You Love
Let me be clear about something: you don’t need to turn every passion into a paycheck.
I know friends who work jobs they never talk about. They clock in, do solid work, collect their paychecks, and spend their real energy on the things that matter to them. They’re not “settling” or “selling out.” They’re being strategic.
Maybe you love drawing but hate the idea of client deadlines killing your creativity. Maybe you’re fascinated by urban planning but don’t want to deal with city council politics. That’s completely fine.
You can structure your commerce around your art, not the other way around.
Get a job that pays well enough and leaves you with energy for what you actually care about. There’s wisdom in separating your survival from your soul work.
Start With Investigation, Not Answers
Instead of pressuring yourself to know exactly what you want, start investigating what you’re already drawn to.
Ask yourself:
- What sections of bookstores do you gravitates toward?
- What YouTube rabbit holes do you fall into?
- What global issues make you genuinely angry or excited?
- When you complain about how things work, what are you usually complaining about?
These aren’t silly questions. They’re breadcrumbs leading you toward your natural interests and potential directions.
Get Your Work Seen
If you create anything, find ways to show it to people and get feedback. Join a group show. Ask friends to look at your projects. Post your thoughts online.
External perspective helps you understand your own point of view. Sometimes we’re too close to our own work to see what makes it unique or valuable.
Other people can often spot patterns in your interests and strengths that you can’t see yourself. They might say “You always come up with the most creative solutions to technical problems” or “You have this way of explaining complex things that just makes sense.”
Listen to that feedback. It’s showing you something about how your brain works that might point toward what you should be doing more of.
The Power of Both/And Thinking
You might discover you’re interested in seemingly contradictory things. That’s not confusion, that’s complexity.
Maybe you love both analytical problem-solving and creative expression. Maybe you’re drawn to both helping individuals and changing systems. Maybe you want both stability and adventure.
You don’t have to pick just one thing. Modern careers are increasingly non-linear. You can be a teacher who writes. An engineer who makes art. A social worker who builds apps.
Your unique combination of interests might be exactly what the world needs.
Your Question Shows You Care
The fact that you’re asking “What should I do with my life?” tells me something important about you: you want your life to matter. You want to contribute something meaningful.
That instinct is valuable. Protect it. Don’t let anyone convince you to stop caring about purpose just because it makes career decisions more complicated.
People who care deeply about their impact tend to do work that matters, even if it takes them longer to figure out exactly what that looks like.
Small Steps, Big Direction
You don’t need to have it all figured out to start moving. Pick something that interests you and try it for six months. Volunteer for causes you care about. Take a night class. Start a side project.
Movement creates momentum. Action provides information. You’ll learn more about what you want by trying things than by thinking about trying things.
Start where you are, with what you have, toward what interests you. The path will reveal itself as you walk it.
Your life isn’t a problem to solve. It’s an experiment to conduct. Trust your curiosity, follow your fascination, and pay attention to what emerges.
What’s one thing you can’t stop thinking about lately? That might be exactly where you should start.
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