Your twenties feel like you’re constantly behind. Everyone else seems to have it figured out while you’re still piecing together what you even want. But after talking to countless people who’ve walked this path before you, I’ve realized something crucial: we worry about the wrong things. The stuff keeping you up at night? It probably won’t matter in ten years. Meanwhile, the foundations that actually shape your life barely get any attention.
Stop Planning, Start Moving
You’ve been researching that side project for months. You’ve watched every tutorial, read all the articles, made the perfect spreadsheet. But you still haven’t started.
Action beats perfection every single time.
Your twenties give you something incredibly valuable: permission to mess up. You have fewer responsibilities, less to lose, and more energy to recover when things go sideways. This is your window to build a bias towards action, to learn by doing instead of endless preparation.
You can’t steer a ship that isn’t moving. Take the messy first step. Start before you feel ready. The course correction comes after you begin, not before.
Money Knowledge Pays Forever
We’ll spend two hours picking a restaurant but won’t spend twenty minutes understanding retirement accounts. That math doesn’t add up, especially when those twenty minutes could be worth thousands down the line.
Your money habits right now are setting the pattern for the next forty years. Not because you need to be perfect or have tons saved already. Because understanding compound interest, knowing good debt from bad debt, and tracking where your money actually goes creates a foundation that compounds just like the money itself.
When opportunities show up or life throws you a curveball (and it will), you’ll know exactly how to respond. Every bit of financial literacy you pick up now keeps paying dividends for decades.
Build Real Connections, Not Contact Lists
Networking events make you want to run for the exit. All those forced conversations and business card exchanges feel hollow because they are.
The people who’ve opened the biggest doors for me weren’t connections I made at networking events. They were people I actually liked, respected, and built genuine relationships with over time.
Think about what you can offer others instead of what they can do for you. Share interesting finds, make helpful introductions, celebrate their wins like they’re your own. Be someone others genuinely want to see succeed.
When opportunities arise, people don’t scroll through their LinkedIn contacts. They think, “Who do I actually like and trust?” That’s the difference between collecting business cards and building relationships.
Design Your Life on Purpose
You followed the path: school, university, job. It felt like making choices, but really you were just following the default route society laid out. And that default path? It’s designed for other people’s expectations, not your happiness.
If you don’t actively design your life, someone else will design it for you. Your boss designs your schedule. Social media designs your priorities. Society designs what success should look like.
Ask yourself this: Would I actively choose the life I’m living right now? If you could start from scratch, is this the path you’d carve out? Your twenties are the perfect time to get intentional about this before you become too comfortable with the wrong direction.
Most of us don’t wake up knowing exactly what we want. That’s completely normal. But you can start figuring it out now, before you become too set in your ways to make changes.
Your Career is a Portfolio, Not a Ladder
The traditional career ladder is broken. You climb and climb, only to realize halfway up that your ladder is against the wrong wall. And by then, you’re too invested to start over.
Modern careers aren’t straight lines. They’re portfolios of experiences, skills, interests, and lessons that compound over time, even when they don’t fit neatly on a resume.
Spend more time exploring. Try different industries. Say yes to interesting projects even if they don’t lead to immediate promotions. Learn things just because they seem cool.
Instead of asking “Is this my forever job?” ask yourself “What am I learning here that I can use anywhere?” That shift turns every role, even the ones you hate, into a stepping stone. You’re always accumulating skills and experiences that will connect in ways you can’t predict yet.
Be Present for Your Own Life
Your twenties can feel like this endless waiting room. Once I get this job. Once I figure out my career. Once I have more money. Then I’ll be happy.
But there’s always another goal, another milestone, another thing to stress about. You can spend entire weekends with family while your mind stays stuck on a job interview. You can miss incredible moments because you’re too busy planning for future ones.
I’m not saying don’t have ambitions. Goals definitely matter. But don’t let chasing future happiness rob you of present happiness. Some of the best moments are random Tuesday nights with friends, spontaneous trips, conversations that stretch until 3 a.m. even though work starts in five hours.
Your twenties aren’t a dress rehearsal. This is your real life, happening right now. Work on those goals, absolutely. But don’t forget to actually live while you’re doing it.
The Real Investment
The most important investment you can make in your twenties isn’t in your portfolio or your career ladder. It’s becoming someone you can truly rely on and take bets on. Build the habits, skills, discipline, and confidence to be that person for yourself.
Because at the end of the day, you’re the one constant in your life story. Make sure you’re someone worth betting on.
FAQs
How do I know if I’m on the right career path?
Ask yourself: “What am I learning that I can use anywhere?” If the answer is valuable skills and growth, you’re on track.
When should I start learning about personal finance?
Right now. Financial knowledge compounds like money itself. The earlier you start, the more it pays off.
How do I network without feeling fake?
Don’t network. Build genuine relationships with people you actually like. Focus on what you can give, not what you can get.
Is it okay to not have everything figured out in my twenties?
Absolutely. Most people don’t. Your twenties are for exploring, learning, and building foundations, not having all the answers.
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